James L. Wagner Sr.

James L. Wagner Sr. Tuesday, June 24, 2025 at age 75. Predeceased by his parents, Joseph and MaryLou; sister, Cheryl. Survived by his children, Melissa (Kyle) Nelson and James Jr. (Amanda); grandchildren, Lauren, Dillon, Addison and Jordan; brother, John (Lisa); and several nieces, nephews and dear friends. Jim was born on November 7th, 1949 in Buffalo, NY to Joseph ( a hard working mechanic) and Mary Lou Wagner ( a compassionate and loving homemaker). He was the first born of 3 children and is predeceased by his sister Cheryl and survived by his brother, John. Jim graduated from Kenmore East High School in 1967. He was known for his infectious smile and a contagious laugh that lit up any room he entered. He was generous beyond measure, thoughtful, and caring. These traits made him truly unforgettable. His greatest passions included the Buffalo Bills, Army Lacrosse, his Harley Davidson motorcycle, beloved dogs Trina and Gorman, playing golf, and a generous supporter of The Wounded Warrior project. Jim was a patriotic American and answered when his country called and drafted him into Service. He served in the Army as an infantryman with the 101st Airborne Division, deploying to Vietnam from March of 1970 until April of 1971, where he earned a Silver Star medal, recognizing his gallantry in battle. He later served as an officer in the New York National Guard until 1982. Jim’s professional life was marked by dedication and commitment to serving those whom he had the privilege to work with. He was an executive with Marine Midland Bank (now HSBC) where his compassion and caring demeanor shined. His colleagues described him as a “real guy’s guy” which was rare in the corporate world. He was well liked, well respected, and was described as being a great manager, teacher, and role model by his colleagues. Jim found his greatest joy in his family. Especially in coaching his son Jimmy in hockey and baseball when he was young. He took great pride in never missing a game or event in his daughter, Melissa’s, high school sports career and continued that love and commitment onto his son while he played lacrosse at West Point in the following years. He drove countless miles around the east coast attending nearly every game in Jimmy’s four year career. In his most recent years, Jim was a devoted grandfather to his four grandchildren Lauren, Dillon, Addison, and Jordan. Being a grandfather was his greatest joy. He was extremely loving and playful. His grandchildren loved playing games of UNO, Bingo ( to win candy of course!), and Skipbo. He prided himself in attending every game of soccer, basketball, softball, and cross country meets he possibly could to cheer on his 4 grandchildren. HIs love and encouragement will forever be etched in their hearts. In every phase of life, Jim led with his heart and never gave up dreaming and wanting to follow his passions. His presence brought joy with a laughter that healed wounds, and his love left an imprint that time will never be forgotten. He will be remembered for the happiness and zest for life that he brought into the world, but also for the way he inspired and supported others around him. Family and friends may call Thurs. July 3rd from 12-2pm at the Leo M. Bean and Sons Funeral Home. Funeral service to follow calling at 2pm at the funeral home. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the Wounded Warriors Project.

James L. Wagner Sr.

November 7, 1949 - June 24, 2025