Ronald T. Poness Sr.

Monday, September 18, 2023 at age 81. Survived by his loving wife of 56 years, Gaye; children, Ronald Jr. (Jessica), Robin (Tom) Hernandez and Michelle Vittone; grandchildren, Katherine (Dennis) DeVries, Leila and Mia Hernandez; special niece, Anne Berry; cousins and dear friends. Ron was a proud 1960 graduate of Jefferson High School in Rochester, New York. He enlisted in the US Marine Corp, served three tours in Vietnam, and was honorably discharged as a Sergeant (E-5) in 1966. After the military, Ron then earned his Bachelor's degree from SUNY Brockport followed by his Master’s degree at the University of Rochester. Ron also attended the University of Miami in 1966 where he met his wife Gaye Anne and celebrated 56 years of marriage. Ron began his Social Studies teaching career at Gates-Chili High School and retired from there after 25 years. While at Gates Chili he had a strong leadership role in the Teachers Union. He also enjoyed skiing on the slopes at Swain with the Ski Club he advised for many years, and you would always find him cheering on his students and athletes at the weekly Football games. “Mr. Poness” as he was known by his students was a giant personality, strong and tough exterior, but a gentle caring heart, always helping out others in need or those in danger of losing their way. Ron became closely involved with the Veterans Outreach Center and became an advocate for helping out his fellow Vets. He continued his lifelong friendships with his fellow Marines and attended reunions throughout the country on a yearly basis. Ron enjoyed an active retirement life spending time with family and friends. Ron and Gaye traveled between their home in Vero Beach Florida and summer home on Lake Ontario so he could spend time near his children, grandchildren, and friends. He will be greatly missed by anyone fortunate to know him. Family and friends may call at the Leo M. Bean and Sons Funeral Home Monday 4-7pm. Funeral Mass Tuesday 10am at St. John of Rochester Church, 8 Wickford Way Fairport, NY 14450. Interment, Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Veterans Outreach Center.